Fear Itself
Back in the blogging saddle this week after a few days away on a business trip. I spent the early part of the week in the Northwest (Washington and Oregon) working on stories for upcoming issues of Tack 'n Togs Magazine.
I always enjoy my trips out West and this adventure was even more enjoyable than most. I'll share more of the details later.
Wednesday, I had to drive from outside of Portland, Ore. back up to Seattle to catch a plane back home to Minneapolis. It was my first time in a long time to spend an extended amount of time listening to talk radio.
I'm more of a "lite jazz" radio person than an AM-ranting-and-raving shock jock listener, but occasionally it's fun and informative to tune in to see who's saying what about what or whom.
If you zip across any AM dial on any given morning, you'll Rush Limbaugh on quite a number of stations. I enjoy listening to him -- in small doses -- and always with the idea in mind that he is advancing a political agenda. Tough to find one of these talk radio folks who isn't, it seems.
Wednesday's show did have one little gem in it that I wanted to share. Rush read an article from the most recent Newsweek magazine written by Paula Spencer. It was titled, "We Protect Kids From Everything But Fear."
Spencer told all about she as mother is warned nearly daily about something else she needs to be afraid of on behalf of her children. In a most humorous essay, she outlines the growing scorecard of things to be afraid of and then concludes:
...You can't go around afraid of everything. It's too exhuasting! No matter how careful you are, bad stuff happens (diaper rash, stitches, all your friends assigned to another class). And it's seldom the end of the world...
I liked the piece because the irrational fear some parents exhibit when it comes to horseback riding is one of the mind-sets I'll have to admit I don't understand. A horse is too dangerous for a child, but a skateboard that he rides along an iron railing and crashed three feet to the ground af the end is fine.
I happen to believe that today's children could benefit greatly through being exposed to horses and riding. They would learn a variety of great life-lessons. Is there some danger involved? Sure, but show me one activity that doesn't have some sense of danger.
I remember when my older brother informed my mother he wanted to play football. He was short and puny and she believed likely to be flattened like a pancake. But her response was one of those priceless parental moments. "I don't think you should play football, but if you do and you get killed, don't come running to me."
I think Bill Cosby got that laugh line from my mother.
You can read Paula Spencer's essay here.
